Its Valentines day , I am home alone and tomorrow am taking my first semesters results.
On top of that my chocolate consumption has started leaving its sweet bitter affects behind.
This is how i ended up here. Writing at my new years resolution blog while trying to understand how everything ended up as it did, when at the start all seamed so easy.
At every start the road to success, to achieving your dream, seams pretty straight forward.
But then little by little everything gets harder as obstacles appear out of nowhere (promises, dilemmas, critics) and the road gets harder and harder to cross.
Why does this always happen.
Is it because we forget our "great causes" or are we simply incapable of having long term Resolution.
I think its due to the first one. Time passes and we forget how much some things used to matter to us. We are Just. to busy living the moment until its too late and the opportunity passes or something makes us remember (a friend, a Day , a picture) that there was something we told ourselves we will accomplish.
Then we start over again, dedicating ourselves once more to the goal until we succeed or forget about it again.
So how do you keep yourself focused to the target and avoid this never ending circle?
For me the solutions is one. Putting reminders at the places i would not expect to see any. Whether this means writing a reminder for my future me and putting then to my calendar to a day, weeks ahead or arranging to do things that i know will make me remember what i am working towards. But this is something everyone must find on his own as the process helps you learn about yourself and boost up your confidence.
That's all from me , wish me good luck for my results.
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